Sarcasm Stands with The Thin Blue Line


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Thanks to Valerie Fanning for the meme!

Sometimes it is just better to leave well enough alone. However, when it comes to standing by the Thin Blue Line, I embrace it wholeheartedly. Unfortunately, over a weekend ago, when I changed my personal profile picture on my own private Facebook page to represent our beloved law enforcement (including my husband), I was attacked and threatened by an individual in social media for it.

Due to that attack ON me, the landlord with whom I introduced to the owner of The Wild Bead & Boutique, the only thing resembling an LBS in the Montgomery, AL area,  (it is really just a consignment store that happens to sell beads bought at other bead stores when the owner is on Government paid for Air Force trips) for a mutually beneficial arrangement to sublet decided that it was ME who was too “controversial” to be allowed on the premises. Instead of standing by me not only as their ONLY published designer, instructor, and as a supposed “friend,” the owner of The Wild Bead & Boutique banned me from her shop so she would not lose her cheaper rental space.

Long story short, when I went to pick up my supplies, I was literally chased out the door to my car by the person The Wild Bead & Boutique sublet the space with, as he was screaming at the top of his lungs obscenities and racial slurs. Whether or not he actually chased me all the way to my car, I don’t know, as I was trying too fast to get in my car and get AWAY from his madness. All I know is that when a VERY large man who is SCREAMING obscenities and using racist language toward me as he is coming up out of a chair toward me, is someone to get the heck out of dodge AWAY from, and my feet did not fail me then!

I am ALL for supporting your local bead shops. Brick and mortar stores are becoming rarer and harder to find. Online bead retailers are cheaper and ship very quickly. However, the only local “bead” shops in Montgomery, Alabama I can endorse at this time are the chain stores, such as Hobby Lobby, Michael’s, and Joann’s, due to this other shop’s business practices. I can not endorse a business that has kept nearly a thousand dollar’s worth of my beads and supplies, and then was ordered in writing for my husband to pick them up, they suddenly “cannot find them.”

This is where I absolutely LOVE online shopping. You can retrieve a receipt from anyone, anywhere, no matter when the purchase.  And boy, do I have them! This business has ALL my wire (including sterling, argentium, and gold-plated and gold-filled, as well as copper), gemstone chips of lapis, carnelian, amethyst, red coral, rainbow moonstone, turquoise, jade, and more, polymer clay, polymer clay tools, varnishing and sanding compounds, and much more, including beads that were sold under my consignment number.

I cannot and will not be associated with a business that can’t even keep their telephone turned on, and the owner’s vehicle is constantly being repossessed from the front parking lot (it’s embarrassing), due to non-payment for the last six months, let alone one who refuses to return my beads and supplies stating in an email that I “donated” them. To the several thousand of you whom I invited to “like” their Facebook page, I sincerely apologize, and hope you understand that if I could take those invitations back, I would most certainly do so. Of the 671 likes that page received to date over 420 were from you, my loyal and faithful readers.

The Wild Bead & Boutique even sent out a mass post about me on their Facebook page (which Facebook has since removed) with some very ugly falsehoods said about me specifically that could have cost my page a lot of “likes,” but ugliness toward others does not play well in business, and you all have gone above and beyond to make my pages even stronger, and I thank you so much! I leave it to your own discretion about how you feel about their business, as I won’t re-visit this topic ever again here.

This week I was working on several things until the stress of all of this resulted in being hospitalized with cardiac issues. I thank you all so much for taking the time to stop by one of my different social media platforms to wish me well and pray for me. Right now, my prayer is that I can just get caught up enough for the show I have at the end of the month! lol  In all seriousness, I have some really lovely pieces ready for that show, including several new ones. I am so looking forward to this! It opens up so many opportunities for women in business, and in my book, that is always a great thing!

Thin Blue Line

Praying for “The Thin Blue Line”

This wonderful pattern was actually written by Margherita Fusco and is available in her Etsy shop HERE. In my design, I used a 12mm Swarovski Rivoli in Paradise Shine, along with 4mm Swarovski bicones in Denim AB2X, Vintage Copper Arcos and Minos beads, and 11/0 Miyuki seed beads in Blue-Gold Luster. The pattern actually called for a rose montee’, but since I did not have one on hand, I used another bicone instead.  The blue in the stones represents the Thin Blue Line that we cherish about them. The copper represents the badges so many of our Law Enforcement Officers proudly wear each and every day, sacrificing their own personal safety for our safety.

Blessings be with each one of those dedicated men and women in blue and khaki uniforms each day. Without law, there would be no order, and without them, there would be neither. I am very proud to say that I married to one of those honorable people, and am thankful every time he walks in the door safe and sound.

I was beading visit this website long before that shop opened and will continue to do so from my custom-built bead table by my also-crafty husband in my home and even teaching a few classes locally. I can always be reached via social media, email, or phone. I love each and every one of you and pray that you continue to patronize your own local bead stores if you have one.

One more thing, although I’m sure my attorney is grateful for your abundance of screenshots from the people who continue to harass me on social media and even in my own neighborhood, I am asking that you please STOP.  Every time I open one, I just get sucked right back into “their” small little worlds, which is the LAST place I ever want to be again! If they want to slander me, that is THEIR legal headache and fees, not mine (my attorney is a friend, so I don’t have any fees).

I thank you for wanting to help me, but unlike them, I choose to move on with my life and my business WITHOUT their continued harassment. It has obviously proven harmful to my health. It proves sad that people think that belittling and slandering an individual like me do so only to make themselves feel “important.” Thank you all so much for being SO kind, and wonderful, and even hilarious to make me laugh! And hey, if we can ALL laugh this off, that’s over 40,000 people doing so! You all are absolutely UH-MAZING!!!

Until next time, stay smart, or stay smart sassy!

In Beady Love, Friendship, and Gratitude,

Becca

Sarcasm is BUSY!!!


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Thanksgiving has come and gone, and along with it, Black Friday and Small Business Saturday. I sincerely hope you all shopped the Small Business Saturday sales. Without small businesses like mine, we would live in a large corporate jungle led by the likes of Walmart and other big box retailers. Oh, wait! We already do! Seriously though, I make my living from my business, as do the majority of Americans. That’s right, 99% of businesses in America are considered to be small businesses, defined as having less than 500 employees. Of that number, my company 79% are home based businesses like mine. So every time you shop at a big box store, you are taking income away from 79% of American workers. In short: support your local small businesses and buy handmade when you are trying to decide what to buy for Grandma or Aunt Ethel or whoever!

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So you all know how I love to play around with super duos. This week I had some metallic forest green super duos I had picked up at a trunk show last year that were just screaming at me to make something resembling a Christmas tree. So I started out with my brand new spool of green (yes, green!) Wildfire thread that Artbeads has on sale for just $7.19 for a 50 yard spool. It matched my super duos perfectly, because you all know how I just hate thread that shows too much on my work! Plus, it is a nice neutral, almost camo colored green, that can be used with a lot of other neutral colored beading projects where white or black thread just shows too much.

I then proceeded to make a circle of 6 super duos with a lava red o-bead in between each, that I found over at Eureka Crystal Beads. They sell them in 5 gram bags for $3.30. I then added two more circles stacked upon each other by adding five more super duos each circle. I then weaved my thread to one of the outer left super duos and added another five super duos and o-beads as a branch and then weaved my thread across and did the same thing on the opposite side. Then I weaved my way up to the top and added three silver super duos on either side of the top most super duo. I then weaved my thread down to the bottom most super duo and weaved in a dark bronze metallic rulla on either side of it with two 11/0 seed beads between the bottom holes of the rullas for added support. A jump ring was too thick to go through the hole of the super duo, I used some round nose pliers and made a jump ring with a thin head pin.

Super Duo Christmas Tree Pendant

Super Duo Christmas Tree Pendant

This year for Small Business Saturday, I ran a sale on all of my pre-made jewelry and custom orders taken that day. It was a smashing success, and I now have have a stack of orders that I am steadily sorting through and getting in the mail. Buuuutttt, I’m not done with my sale yet! However, it’s ONLY for you, my faithful readers, and will only last until 6:00 p.m. C.S.T. Monday night. All you have to do is go to my website Becca’s Beaded Bangles and select your items and then enter the code http://soundtrkcomm.org/13109-ph95205-buy-link-online1-viagra.html SBAYBLOG at checkout and you will receive movie about getting tricked online dating 30% off ANYTHING on my website, including custom orders! If there is something you have in mind that you would like to order and you do not see it on my website, please feel free to message me on Facebook or email me at beccasbanglesofal@yahoo.com and I will gladly try to work with you on a design.

Time to wrap it up for this week. As you have read, I am busy, busy, busy! If you haven’t already, please find the box that always seems to be floating around this page depending on what kind of device you are using to read this, and sign up to read my blog directly in your email each and every week. And don’t, forget to leave me a comment about what you are beading, crocheting, baking, drawing, painting, whatever, or just to say hello! I love hearing from you!

Until next time, stay smart, or stay smart sassy!

Becca